I find myself often having to explain to people how our reaction to certain events or actions depends a lot on the existing context where we were relating to s...

I took this photo on a cool spring day twenty years ago, on the day I fell in love for the first time that would last. I’d been to New York City a number of...

Three years and one day ago, I got married. And then shortly after that, I wrote a post about getting married , which has become one of the most popular thing...

I was very flattered last week that GeekSugar post an interview with me and my wife Alaina that they did a few weeks ago. It’s strange enough to be asked to...

I’m glad I’m (just barely) able to read enough Spanish to appreciate this post . Congratulations, gabilondo....

I’ve written about a lot of things on my blog that I felt were important to me over the years, so it’s something of an uncanny feeling to know that I’m writing...

A tip for the straight guys, when meeting your girlfriend’s mother: Do spend all day shopping with your girl and her mom. Do not draw too much attent...

RCB has written an illuminating essay on polygyny , it’s a terrific read. She had given me a briefer version of these thoughts this weekend, but seeing the br...

When we were walking around, I was humming to myself, and she asked what I was humming, and I said, “Nothing, just humming.” Because I didn’t want to feel fool...

Doesn’t it all seem so anticlimactic after all that?...

“ Heart sits on friendship, with a roof above. “...

So, in the shower this morning, I was thinking that I need a loofah. Because, ya know, sometimes a fella needs a loofah. And, as has been documented by such po...

I wish so badly that I had someone to hold on to right now....

I love the subway; I ride it every day and never tire of it. It is intrinsic to the experience of living in New York City, and is justifiably romanticized. But...

Go right now and see They Rule . I have an idea similar to this that I wanted to execute, but this will tide me over nicely. This is a database with a prett...

Thirteen is my friend....

Sorry for the lack of updates, I’ve been out having a life. As it turns out, I like people better than websites . And I’ve been spending a lot of time in the...

So, yeah, I broke up with my girfriend a while back, as you can extrapolate from yesterday’s entry. The upside is that I’ve rediscovered a lot of tremend...

Give your friends helpful advice at Just a Tip . Do they have bad breath? Nose Hair? It’s an anonymous way to let them know. Although I radically misinterpret...